So tonight is Js sisters 30th bday. And for the first time since starting to transition he is going to have to dress up. All fancy like.
And it must be a little devasating.
His sisters know. And have mixed feelings.
His parents do not.
He can not dress the way he would like to, (regardless of whether a packer is even involved!!) and just be him. He cant wear the clothes HE would like to. Dress or present himself the way HE would like to. And it must be stressing him out big time. His sisters are all big dresser-upperers. J was always a bling wearer, but still not girly. Hot - yes. Funky - yes. He never liked dressing up anyway, but that is probably because dressing up would confirm the discomfort he felt at being in the wrong clothes and body.
I dont think he even has anything anymore that is passable as clothes he would be comfy in???
I wish there was something i could do.
I am sending him creative positive thoughts...he was always able to pull something incredible out of the bag at the last second anyway...
You can do it J!!! And you will be hot. One step at a time!!
